chore: upgrade dev/CI Cassandra from 3.11 to 5.0 (#9482)

Cassandra 3.11 reached EOL in July 2023. Upgrade both development and CI
compose files to Cassandra 5.0 for current driver compatibility and
feature parity with ScyllaDB.

Changes:
- develop/docker-compose: cassandra:3.11 -> cassandra:5.0
- develop/github CI compose: cassandra:3.11 -> cassandra:5.0, increase
healthcheck retries from 30 to 60 (5.0 is slower to start)
- macOS docs: update to 5.0, remove stale ARM JNA workaround that is no
longer needed

## What changed?
Big change, but:
1. Cassandra 3.11 is End-of-Life. 
2. Allowed me separately to change the Golang CQL driver to ScyllaDB's,
which doesn't support that EOL Cassandra anymore (my fault too, I
removed that support I think).

## Why?
If I wanted (and I do) to switch to ScyllaDB's GoCQL driver, I needed to
perform this change.

## How did you test it?
- [x] built
- [x] run locally and tested manually
- [x] covered by existing tests
- [ ] added new unit test(s)
- [ ] added new functional test(s)

## Potential risks
I also did not see any performance regression!

develop/docker-compose/docker-compose.yml

@@ -15,7 +15,7 @@ services:
     networks:
       - temporal-dev-network
   cassandra:
-    image: cassandra:3.11
+    image: cassandra:5.0
     container_name: temporal-dev-cassandra
     ports:
       - "9042:9042"

develop/github/docker-compose.yml

@@ -1,11 +1,11 @@
 x-healthcheck-defaults: &healthcheck-defaults
   interval: 3s
   timeout: 3s
-  retries: 30
+  retries: 60
 
 services:
   cassandra:
-    image: cassandra:3.11
+    image: cassandra:5.0
     ports:
       - "9042:9042"
     environment:

docs/development/macos/cassandra.md

@@ -1,22 +1,17 @@
-# Run Cassandra v3.11 on macOS
+# Run Cassandra v5.0 on macOS
 
 ### Install
 ```bash
-brew install cassandra@3.11
+brew install cassandra
 ```
 
-For MacBook with ARM chip, you need to replace the JNA library with a recent version.
-1. Locate the JNA file (`find $(brew --prefix) -name "jna-*.jar"`) and remove it.
-2. Download a recent version of JNA jar file (5.8+) from [Maven](https://search.maven.org/artifact/net.java.dev.jna/jna).
-3. Move the file you downloaded to the folder in step 1.
-
 ### Start
 ```bash
 cassandra -f
 ```
 
 ### Post Installation
-Verify Cassandra v3.11 is running and accessible:
+Verify Cassandra v5.0 is running and accessible:
 ```bash
 cqlsh
 ```